How Much Influence Can You Actually Have?

How Much Influence Can You Actually Have

Since releasing my write-up of last year’s project to read 52 books in 52 weeks, I’ve had a dozen or so people tell me either that particular piece or my writing in general has been a positive influence in their day to day life, or has given them motivation to do x, y, and z.

Relatively speaking I have very little influence and a rather small following. But there’s a dozen people in whose lives I’ve made a difference because I read a few books.

How awesome is that?

My end goal in all everything I do is to be a positive influence, to grow enough and become “famous” enough that the stuff I say and the way I act make a positive difference in people’s lives. If this 20something writer and digital marketer for a tech startup can influence a dozen people, what can you do?

Probably a lot more than you think.

The internet is a beautiful thing. I absolutely love it! And I love that social media is the current state of the internet. Every site you go to, everything you do online, is interacting with others in some capacity. Because of this, every single one of us has the opportunity to positively influence our friends, family, and even complete strangers.

What an opportunity!

The way we live, act, carry ourselves, etc. everyday has an effect on people we come in contact with. If you’re a businessman, then the way you treat new people you meet and how you conduct business with old contacts has a direct impact on each of those people. You have the opportunity to show more love than is deserved. You have the chance to work a little harder to motivate someone who’s struggling, or maybe just not sure what they can do. You’re in a position to make a difference.

If you work with people, you have an opportunity to influence them. If you use the internet, and I think this is absolutely gorgeous, you have the opportunity to influence hundreds, thousands, even millions more by what you present to them.

Sure, somebody’s going to be the trolling jerk that says constantly trying to be a positive influence would either be fake, annoying, or could instead be used to negatively effect someone.

Grow up.

Every single person is constantly telling a story. You are living a narrative – that’s just part of living! But what kind of story are you telling? And how? Photo journalism has been a great way of telling stories and enriching the lives of millions of people. So has writing. So has simply living!

Tony Robbins is a great example. The famous motivational speaker has been the catalyst for hundreds of thousands of personal transformations where people make the most, and I mean the highest amount, of themselves.

I read a few books and told people about it. I wanted to share my experience, and I hoped that just one person would look at it and go “you know, I could do something like that. Let me start.”

No fewer than a dozen friends and acquaintances have directly told me it’s motivated or inspired them to pick up a book or start their own year-long project. I can only hope several more people have gone through that thought process who are just keeping it to themselves – which is what, honestly, most of us would do.

You’re telling a story through everything you say and do each day, through everything you present to your social media platforms, and how you carry yourself around others. And people all over are paying attention, whether you realize it or not.

What kind of influence are you having? What kind of influence could you have? What story are you telling?

How to Read Over 50 Books a Year, Just Like I Did

Kenneth Burke 52 Books in 52 Weeks

A year ago I decided I wanted to do a long-term project. I’d been working 60 hour weeks in a career I really didn’t care for – running all over the place, being a “public figure,” trying to fit in with people literally twice my age. I was looking for an escape.

Growing up I hated reading. And it showed. My yearly test scores consistently said I was behind in both reading skill and reading comprehension. There were, I think, two parts to this. 1.) I was very rambunctious. Even as I’ve grown older, it’s been difficult for me to sit still and not fidget for more than half an hour. 2.) My parents very strongly pressured me to read. And like any child, I wanted to do the opposite of whatever Mom and Dad thought I should.

Fast forward to college, and I began to enjoy reading. A lot of what I was having to read was finally interesting, even though it came mostly through forced assignments. But there was another aspect to reading in college that, I believe, was a turning point for me in life (as melodramatic as that might sound).

If you had to choose one phrase for my personality, it would be “outgoing introvert.” Effectively this means that I’m a rather social person, but I re-energize, decompress, what-have-you through quiet time, alone. In college, constantly surrounded by dozens of others at all times, reading became a way of escape.

It was good for my grades, and it’s been good for my mental stability ever since. So when I realized I no longer wanted to continue in the career mentioned above, spending all my energy on something I didn’t love, reading once again became my escape – a way to take back control, really.

I realized how much I’d missed reading, how much I’d missed a lot of things I’d used to do. And I felt I needed to add a few of those things back into my daily life, for pleasure as well as to keep myself sane (and I mean that in the most literal, psychological way).

What I Did

On Sunday, November 16, 2014, I decided I was going to start a year-long project to read a book week, or rather, 52 books in 52 weeks.

I didn’t necessarily care about finishing a book every single week. What was important to me, at the outset, was that I make a habit of taking time for myself. After all, quiet time, particular for introverts, is one of the most important parts of anyone’s day.

As I began building momentum, completing a few books, and then a few more before New Year’s, I began referring to a good friend of mine (Will Malone) who’s been doing year-long projects (what he calls 365’s) for the past five years or so.

In referencing him, I began to make more of a public show of things – and people actually paid attention! (This goes into my recommendations, which I’ll expound on more below.)

A few people here and there began taking interest in the fact that I wanted to read 52 books in 52 weeks. After all, how many people consciously set out to do that?

Some said I was inspirational. Others thought (not incorrectly) that I was crazy. Either way, there’s several things I’ve learned along the way that I think everyone else should be aware of as well.

The Benefits

When you read over 50 books in a year, it’s not the same as binging on your favorite television shows. When you read over 50 books in a year, you’re constantly growing your vocabulary. You’re continually learning. You’re broadening your knowledge, your framework of experiences. And you’re preparing a developmental pathway in your brain that will yield exponential progress as you get older.

Over the last year, my vocabulary has grown immensely. My reading skills, which have always been incredibly poor, have developed into the average/above-average range, and I’ve become a surprisingly better writer (given, still not great).

For me in particular, there’s been three important benefits.

First – I’d always been one that’s had trouble finishing anything. I’d always had all these creative thoughts running through my mind, but even as an Eagle Scout and college graduate, it’d been difficult for me to set out to do something and actually complete it. On a very personal level, reading over 50 books in a year was the first self-propelled project I’ve ever finished. And I’m damn proud of that.

Second – I’ve learned an incredible amount. You can’t read 50 books (fiction or non) without learning something, whether it be a few new words, or, in my case, several concepts that have actually helped me be better at my job, and a better citizen.

Third – This project has helped me understand internal motivation, and how to hone it for constructive purposes (i.e. self-actualization). There’s so much I’ve learned about time management, about how to prepare for and execute a long-term project. I’m very much a Creative with an entrepreneurial spirit, and I can honestly say that if I hadn’t done some project like this, there’s no way I’d know how to become a Creative who can actually support himself through his creative endeavors.

Kenneth Burke 52 Books in 52 Weeks

How You Can Do This

Sadly, too many people look at what I’ve done and say “Wow, that’s great! I wish I could do something like that.” This is very discouraging to hear, because I know a lot of people do a lot more difficult things on a daily basis. By all accounts, reading is rather low on the strenuous scale. But I want every single person reading this to know without a shadow of a doubt that yes, you can actually do something like this.

Let’s do some math. You’ll notice below that I’ve written out every book I read during this project, along with the number of pages and the date I completed each book. In total I read just over 15,000 pages – 15,023, to be exact. This part isn’t going to be perfectly accurate, but the industry standard is that there’s 250 words to a page for a book. 15,023 pages multiplied by 250 words per page brings us to 3,755,750 words that I read in the last year.

The average person reads between 190-200 words per minute (wpm). For round numbers, let’s use 200 wpm. 3,755,750 words divided by 200 wpm equals 312.979 hours that, should you keep an even reading pace, it would take the average person to read 52 books within a year.

312.979 hours worth of reading divided by 365 days in a year brings us to just under 52 minutes of reading per day that it would take to read over 50 books within a year. I strongly believe that you could do that, and here’s some recommendations on how to make it happen.

Recommendations

When I started, I would read in the morning as soon as I got up, and in the evening just before falling asleep. I do not recommend that you do this. If the average person reads about 200 words per minute when they’re fully conscious, that number is effectively cut in half whenever they’re trying to wake up or keep from falling asleep. I do recommend that you take a few minutes to wake up in the morning, particularly with a cup of coffee or six, and then begin reading.

All in all, I read an average of just over 41 pages a day. Something to keep in mind is that not all pages are created equal. For example, 41 pages of Harry Potter is vastly different from 41 pages of The Lord of the Rings. As is 41 pages of Malcom Gladwell compared to 41 pages of Jane Austen. Don’t be discouraged if it takes you more than an hour a day to read 40+ pages of a particular book, because some are simply more difficult to read than others. But do try to stay balanced with some light reading in between dense pieces.

Pick something you love. If you’re going to do a reading goal, do not read books simply because they’re lying around or because you feel like you should. I read The House of the Seven Gables because we had it lying around the house, and because I didn’t want to spend $20+ on a new book. Worst three weeks of my year. But if you love something, like how much I enjoyed Outliers or Choose Your Own Autobiography, you’ll get through it much faster, and be happier about it.

If you’re choosing to do a year-long project, whether it be this or anything else, I’d strongly recommend you tell as many people about it as you can. This helps keep you accountable to others to actually complete what you’re working on, and it creates a really fun talking point. At least once a week I had someone enthusiastically ask me “How’s your reading project going?” or “Read any good books lately?” or “I’m putting a reading list together. What would you recommend?” By doing a long-term project and telling people about it along the way, people will reach out to you for advice, as well as genuinely find interest in what you’re doing.

What I Read

Here’s the actual list I kept of every book I read during my year between November 16, 2014 and November 15, 2015. But in case you can’t read my less-than-stellar handwriting, I’ve also typed out every book and noted my favorites.

Kenneth Burke Kennetic Expression 52 Books in 52 Weeks Reading List

                                                                                     

* I’d read this book at least once before I began my year-long project

** I highly recommend this book.

                                                                                     

  1.  Blind Spot, Gordon Rugg, 281 pp. — Completed November 23, 2014

2.  A Praying Life, Paul Miller, 270 pp. — Completed December 8, 2014**

3.  The 4-Hour Work Week, Tim Ferris, 381 pp. — Completed December 13, 2014**

4.  The New Coffeehouse Investor, Bill Schultheis, 181 pp. — Completed December 14, 2014

5.  Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, J. K. Rowling, 309 pp. — Completed December 21, 2014* **

6.  The Weight of Glory, C. S. Lewis, 192 pp. — Completed December 22, 2014

7.  Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, J. K. Rowling, 341 pp. — Completed December 27, 2014* **

8.  Blink, Malcolm Gladwell, 286 pp. — Completed January 3, 2015**

9.  Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, J. K. Rowling, 435 pp. — Completed January 6, 2015* **

10.  Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, J. K. Rowling, 734 pp. — Completed January 23, 2015* **

11.  Multiply, Francis Chan, 333 pp. — Completed January 25, 2015

12.  Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, J. K. Rowling, 870 pp. — Completed February 6, 2015* **

13.  Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, J. K. Rowling, 652 pp. — Completed February 12, 2015* **

14.  Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, J. K. Rowling, 759 pp. — Completed February 19, 2015* **

15.  The Great Gatsby, F. Scott Fitzgerald, 180 pp. — Completed February 22, 2015**

16.  How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie, 248 pp. — Completed February 25, 2015

17.  Watership Down, Richard Adams, 426 pp. — Completed March 15, 2015**

18.  Quiet Strength, Tony Dungy, 301 pp. — Completed March 26, 2015

19.  Pygmalion, George Bernard Shaw, 133 pp. — Completed March 29, 2015

20.  Why Does God Allow War?, Martin Lloyd-Jones, 126 pp. — Completed April 5, 2015

21.  The House of the Seven Gables, Nathaniel Hawthorne, 365 pp. — Completed April 19, 2015

22.  The Hobbit, J. R. R. Tolkien, 305 pp. — Completed April 30, 2015* **

23.  The Fellowship of the Ring, J. R. R. Tolkien, 458 pp. — Completed May 17, 2015* **

24.  How to be Rich, Andy Stanley, 135 pp. — Completed May 28, 2015

25.  Romeo and Juliet, William Shakespeare, 120 pp. — Completed June 3, 2015*

26.  The Two Towers, J. R. R. Tolkien, 398 pp. — Completed June 21, 2015* **

27.  Brain on Fire, Susannah Cahalan, 266 pp. — Completed June 26, 2015**

28.  Wise Words and Quotes, Vern McLellan, 296 pp. — Completed July 1, 2015

29.  Unbroken, Laura Hillenbrand, 416 pp. — Completed July 10th, 2015**

30.  Spark: Igniting a Culture of Multiplication, Todd Wilson, 82 pp. — Completed July 13, 2015

31.  Crossing the Chasm, Geoffery A. Moore, 241 pp. — Completed July 22, 2015**

32.  In the Name of Jesus, Henri J. M. Nouwen, 101 pp. — Completed July 24, 2015

33.  The Return of the King, J. R. R. Tolkien, 340 pp. — Completed August 5, 2015* **

34.  Quidditch Through the Ages, Kennilworthy Whisp, 105 pp. — Completed August 16, 2015

35.  Sense and Sensibility, Jane Austen, 356 pp. — Completed August 17, 2015

36.  Ordinary, Michael Horton, 211 pp. — Completed August 29, 2015

37.  The Bad Beginning, Lemony Snicket, 162 pp. — Completed September 4, 2015*

38.  Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them, Newt Scamander, 88 pp. — Completed September 5, 2015

39.  The Reptile Room, Lemony Snicket, 190 pp. — Completed September 9, 2015*

40.  The Two-Second Advantage, Vivek Ranadive & Kevin Maney, 223 pp. — Completed September 13, 2015

41.  Outliers, Malcolm Gladwell, 285 pp. — Completed September 17, 2015**

42.  The Wide Window, Lemony Snicket, 214 pp. — Completed September 18, 2015*

43.  Choose Your Own Autobiography, Neil Patrick Harris, 291 pp. — Completed September 22, 2015**

44.  The 101 Habits of Highly Successful Screenwriters, Karl Iglesias, 234 pp. — Completed October 3, 2015**

45.  The Miserable Mill, Lemony Snicket, 194 pp. — Completed October 3, 2015*

46.  Bossypants, Tina Fey, 275 pp. — Completed October 5, 2015

47.  Creating Unforgettable Characters, Linda Seger, 221 pp. — October 27, 2015

48.  The Screwtape Letters, C. S. Lewis, 175 pp. — Completed November 1, 2015*

49.  Adulting, Kelly Williams Brown, 262 pp. — Completed November 4, 2014

50.  The Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell, 280 pp. — Completed November 11, 2015**

51.  I Am America (And So Can You!), Stephen Colbert, 217 pp. — Completed November 12, 2015

52.  The Go-Getter, Peter B. Kyne, 79 pp. — Completed November 13, 2015**

I’d highly recommend doing a year-long project like this! Take an hour a day – even if that means you don’t get to watch as much of your favorite show – and put it towards a long-term project that you really want to do. Something you’ve been saying to yourself for years you need to do might be a good one to choose. If you just want to get better at something, you’re bound to if you spend an hour a day on it for an entire year! What I’ve done is, admittedly, not that difficult. But I hope you’ll use it as a catalyst for your own project!

Check out this coming year’s project of publishing 100,000 words: click here.

16 Books in 15 Weeks

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“What’s life without a little challenge,” I said to myself 15 weeks ago.  It was then I decided I ought to read 52 books in 52 weeks (hence the section of this site titled “52 in 52”).  Earlier this week I completed my sixteenth book.  It’s been a time-consuming mission, much to my wife’s chagrin, but not the least bit burdensome.  Really it’s been thoroughly enjoyable, and a habit I look forward to strengthening.

When you break down the numbers, it feels rather impressive. Whether it truly is impressive I don’t care.  Personal victories not designed for the world are often the sweetest, after all.

The list of books finished to date are as follows:

1.  Blind Spot:  Why We Fail to See the Solution Right in Front of Us, Gordon Rugg, 304 pp.

2.  A Praying Life:  Connecting with God in a Distracting World, Paul E. Miller, 277 pp.

3.  The 4-Hour Work Week, Expanded and Updated, Timothy Ferris, 396 pp.

4.  The Weight of Glory and Other Essays, C. S. Lewis, 192 pp.

5.  Blink:  The Power of Thinking without Thinking, Malcolm Gladwell, 296 pp.

6.  The New Coffeehouse Investor:  How to Build Wealth, Ignore Wall Street, and Get on with Your Life, Bill Schultheis, 236 pp.

7.  Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, J. K. Rowling, 310 pp.

8.  Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, J. K. Rowling, 341 pp.

9.  Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, J. K. Rowling, 435 pp.

10.  Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, J. K. Rowling, 734 pp.

11.  Multiply, Francis Chan, 333 pp.

12.  Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, J.K. Rowling, 870 pp.

13.  Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, J.K. Rowling, 652 pp.

14.  Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, J.K. Rowling, 759 pp.

15.  The Great Gatsby, F. Scott Fitzgerald, 180 pp.

16.  How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie, 288 pp.

I cracked open the first book on November 16, 2014.  103 days later (February 27, 2015), I’ve read a combined 6,603 pages.  For perspective, this would be similar to reading the entire Bible three times; or reading Les Miserables seven times.  That’s incredible! Like training for a marathon, or building a company from scratch, it’s amazing to see what can be done when you work towards something day-in and day-out.  In these 15 weeks, I’ve read an average of 64 pages a day, which, truthfully, does not sound like that many.  Traditionally, a published page holds roughly 250 words. So, if I read 64 pages a day, that means I read approximately 16,000 words a day.  Which also means I’ve read approximately 1,648,000 words in the last 15 weeks!

Of course, these numbers only reflect this particular bit of habitual reading.  I do marketing and social media for my company, so I’m often reading roughly 2-dozen articles a day in addition to this.  Many of you reading this, I’m sure, are in similar positions where you read constantly throughout the day, even if it doesn’t fit between formal bindings.

Do you read articles on your phone? Maybe it would be beneficial for you, if you’re interested in something similar, to read a certain number of articles a day for an extended period, or to research a particular topic of interest.  I think it’s always beneficial to take something you have an affinity for, and strengthen it. I also believe, because research says so, that, in addition to improving mental stamina, reading has a multitude of calming qualities.

A lot of people like and appreciate words, syntax, vocabulary, or something of the sort.  If you’re someone who wants to learn a new word a day (or five words a day), as many do, try reading instead of studying a dictionary or downloading “word-a-day” apps.  Whether it’s in a blog, newspaper, novel, or textbook, if you read 16,000 words a day you’re bound to find at least one you don’t already know!

I realize I’m not doing anything special by flipping a few pages.  But I do find it amazing how determination and perseverance towards a goal build over time.  Rather than thinking me arrogant for sharing, use this as motivation to start working towards something you want to accomplish.  Paint a masterpiece, build a race car, create a new business – utilize time and habits to do something you’ve always wanted!

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Kenneth D. Burke

10 Books in 10 Weeks

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For those who haven’t been keeping up with me, 10 weeks ago I set out on a quest to read 52 books in 52 weeks (hence the section of this site titled “52 in 52”).  As of last night, I’ve read 10 books in 10 weeks.  When you break down the numbers, it’s really quite incredible what a single mind can process.  This isn’t just in reference to me – there are ample individuals who read and write more than I do in some form or another.  And I’m not even referring to only reading – it’s amazing what a single person  can do with a little resilience.  Mine, simply, is used towards this reading goal, whereas others’ are used for their specific interests.

The list of books finished to date are as follows (also, only a few pages left in Francis Chan’s Multiply):

1.  Blind Spot:  Why We Fail to See the Solution Right in Front of Us, Gordon Rugg, 304 pp.

2.  A Praying Life:  Connecting with God in a Distracting World, Paul E. Miller, 277 pp.

3.  The 4-Hour Work Week, Expanded and Updated, Timothy Ferris, 396 pp.

4.  The Weight of Glory and Other Essays, C. S. Lewis, 192 pp.

5.  Blink:  The Power of Thinking without Thinking, Malcolm Gladwell, 296 pp.

6.  The New Coffeehouse Investor:  How to Build Wealth, Ignore Wall Street, and Get on with Your Life, Bill Schultheis, 236 pp.

7.  Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, J. K. Rowling, 310 pp.

8.  Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, J. K. Rowling, 341 pp.

9.  Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, J. K. Rowling, 435 pp.

10.  Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, J. K. Rowling, 734 pp.

I began this endeavor on November 16, 2014.  Sixty-nine days later (January 23, 2015), I’ve read a combined 3,521 pages.  To put this into perspective, this would be similar to reading the entire Bible twice; or reading Les Miserables four times.  That’s incredible!  Like training for a marathon, or building a company from scratch, it’s amazing to see what can be done when you work towards something day-in and day-out.  In these ten weeks, I’ve read an average of 51 pages a day, which, truthfully, does not sound like that many.  Historically speaking (though it may have changed), a published page holds roughly 250 words.  So, if I read 51 pages a day, that means I read approximately 12,750 words a day.  Which also means I’ve read approximately 880,250 words in the last 10 weeks!

A lot of people like and appreciate words, syntax, vocabulary, or something of the sort.  If you’re someone who wants to learn a new word a day, or five words a day, which many do, try reading instead of studying a dictionary.  Whether it’s in a blog, newspaper, novel, or textbook, if you read over 12,000 words a day you’re bound to find at least one you don’t already know!

I hope you’re not reading this thinking, “Wow, this guy’s kind of arrogant, it’s not even that big of a deal.”  I realize I’m not doing anything special.  But I do find it amazing how determination and perseverance towards a goal builds over time.  Rather than thinking me arrogant, use this as motivation to start working towards something you want to accomplish.  Paint a masterpiece, build a race car, create a new business – utilize time and habits to do something you’ve always wanted!

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Kenneth D. Burke

Waking From Hibernation

It’s been several months since my last post. It seems time has gotten the better of me. I guess that’s what happens when you start a business, move, and get married in the same brief time period. No complaints, though. Life is grand, and I’m just thankful I’ve been blessed enough to live the way I do, with these opportunities set before me. That said, why am I writing today?

There are so many things I want to do with my life – through-hike the Appalachian Trail, release an album, grow a beard, etc. Thankfully I’m still young enough that these dreams may very well become reality. One goal I have is to read 52 books in 52 weeks. What’s holding me back from doing this amongst everything else? Absolutely nothing. So I’ve set out on this voyage as of November 16, 2014, and I intend to complete it by November 15, 2015. In the meantime, why not share what I learn from these books with the world wide web? I may not finish a different book every single week, and I may not post every single. My goal is to complete 52 books in the given time frame, and in the mean time I’ll be sharing my reviews, fun facts, life tips, and more with all you good people reading this.

Over the next few weeks and months I’ll also be revamping my site to be more entertaining for you without compromising quality, in hopes that I’ll continue to exponentially gain support, and to fulfill another of my Bucket List items – to support my family with my writing.

I thank you for your time in advance, and look forward to being your source for stimulation and distraction.

Please help support my efforts by following this link.

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Kenneth D. Burke